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Dating Tips by Tim Rees

I remember clearly my first date, it was the night I had my first kiss. I remember clearly my nervousness, my fumbling, my stuttering... What a great night! ;-)

It is easy to look back and reminisce... If only I knew then what I know now... So I'm feeling in generous mood and wish to share with all you freshly budding lovers out there a little of my experience...

Firstly, be confident. Easier said than done and the butterflies and nerves are really all part of the fun - the rhyming isn't intentional, but I am a poet and the problem is I know it ;) - Anyway, back to work... So the butterflies and nervousness never fully go away and I like that, but be confident, but not big-headed or arrogant. Confidence is attractive, arrogance is not. If you have asked someone out on a date, then it is because you wish to get to know that person better. Listen to them. If you don't find what they have to say interesting, then they are not the right person for you. If you have been asked out on a date then you can be confident the person requesting your company likes you and, I suspect, if you have accepted, you like that person too. Relax in that knowledge. Be confident. If someone has accepted your request it means they find you attractive, as is the case if someone invites you on a date.

Now, once you have embarked on your date, listen. If you are anything like me, butterflies will impede you ability to listen and nerves will tend to make you talk too much... He he... Great fun... Cool down and listen. Ask simple questions enquiring about your date. Make the evening about them. Focus on learning all you can about them. This will achieve two things. Firstly, it will stop you babbling incoherently about yourself the whole date and secondly, it will make your date feel as if you really care about them, thus making them feel good about themselves.

In fact, the biggest tip I can offer you is to make the date all about the person your are dating. Laugh at their jokes even if you missed the point or didn't find it funny. Make the date all about them. Their happiness is all that matters. The greatest aphrodisiac I know of is making a person feel good about themselves. Sex is guaranteed! Sorry.... so sorry, I shouldn't have lowered the tone like that... But isn't that what it is all about? It is the biggest lesson I have learned... It is all about sex at the end of the day and that goes for both men and women...

Which brings me to the next tip: I'm going to assume the date has gone well and the attraction has increased now you know each other a little better. Okay, now let him/her know how much. A kiss is essential and make it passionate. Leave your date in no doubt you are sexually attracted and maybe go that next step and let them know you are sexually aroused. Don't let butterflies, nerves or any other excuse stop you from leaving your date in no doubt with regard your sexual intention. It is the key. The best place to really get to know someone is lying side by side in bed after having made serious, passionate love...

The keyword in a date should be passion. Don't be afraid to be passionate. I have never met a person yet who doesn't respond to genuine passion, which brings me to another keyword, sincerity. Sincerity is seriously sexy... In fact, you should always marinate your love in sincerity before offering it to another.

Here endeth today's lesson in love... Feel free to send me an email with any questions...

Tim Rees

tim@lifeisart.co.uk

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